Sometimes you can be in a relationship and have a man that makes you happy in almost everyway but your just not sure how he feels about you. Or maybe you love him with all your heart and will love him until the end of time but you know he doesn’t feel as strongly about you as you do about him. If this sounds familiar you may benefit extremely well from a book called the penguin method go to this site for a penguin method review I’ll go into this a lot more later on. Having a man not show his true emotions to you can be an extremely difficult situation and usually your behaviour that is a result of your frustration does nothing to improve the situation if anything it pushes your man away from you even further. It’s a situation I have been in before and seen many times you really want him to love you and you ask him if he does or you try desperately to show affection to him and hope that he returns it, this only makes it harder to break through to him the whole process can be heart breaking.
At this point it may feel like your doomed and you have one of two choices you can either commit to a relationship that will never fulfil your emotional needs or you can leave and try again with someone else. You might even have been in my case of feeling like this and deciding that it’s time to move on and find a more loving and caring man. You go through the heart break of breaking up only to get with someone new and experience a very similar situation. At this point you may generalise all men and think that they just aren’t as loving as women, I know I did. But you know it’s not true because some of your friends seem to have that prince charming. A man so devoted to her that he would do anything and would follow her to the ends of the earth to make her happy. She got lucky. Take a step back and think about it you have friends that seem to find the man of their dreams whereas everyman you meet doesn’t quite meet your expectations. I’m going to through this out there but maybe it’s something with you.
No one likes to hear it but perhaps it’s something to do with you and if not directly there is certainly something you can do to change things. Take control and shape your own destiny. Once you realise that the way you approach a man can make a huge difference to how he treats you a lot can change and you have a huge advantage, you can make a guy fall deep in love with you. Have you seen how penguins are in the animal kingdom? They are some of the most devoted and loving creates on planet earth the male has one partner through his entire life and is totally committed to her and never leaves he will be as devoted as is possible this is the principle of the book the penguin method. The female penguin uses a phenomenon called Neurological reliance which is the same method that successful advertising companies use to sell you things that you don’t necessarily use. You can use the methods in the book to make him really happy to see you, you will find out how you can make him addicted to you and want to spend all his time with you. With this he will also want to show you how much he appreciates you.
A lot of the principles in the penguin method are very simple and if you have ever read any other amazing self-development books such as how to win friends and influence people some of it will seem familiar. You need to get a man to open up and if you don’t know how to do this you’re going to struggle trial and error is certainly not the best way to approach it so I’ll help you with a few tips. Firstly talk to him in a gentle manner and discus certain aspects of your future wait for an appropriate moment where the atmosphere feels right obviously if he has had a stressful day at work don’t try to ask him tricky questions. But securing what you think is going to happen in the future can really get him out of his shell and get closer to him. Talk about buying a house, moving in children etc. If you are on the same page it will only mean good things to talk about it. You may have to go first to get him to open up.
A relationship is a reciprocal connection he will make you happy if you make him happy you can do this by showing sincere appreciation for things he has done. This is different from flattery; flattery won’t get you as far. If you just tell him what you think he wants to hear it doesn’t mean as much as if you are being genuine. If he has done a really good job at something let him know, this alone will make you far closer. If he has done something wrong don’t tell him aggressively let him know he did well to attempt the task but perhaps it went a bit wrong in a certain aspect. Be gentle in constructive criticism and generous in praise. This plays into another of the aspects that will make him feel more comfortable about you and settling down. Think about things from his perspective I know this sounds obvious and is far easier said than done but think what makes a man happy? A man has a strong primitive urge to protect him and his family and you should try to fulfil this for him. This doesn’t mean putting your life in danger and having him rescue you. Simple things like asking him to do things like putting up a shelf. Or tasks that require his specific skills that he can do. Even simply asking him his opinion will make him feel valuable and in turn it will make him feel like you are a much better match.
I could go on but this post has already reached over a thousand words the penguin method is an excellent book and to be honest whether you are looking for love or are in a relationship that you feel you don’t have enough love or affection then it will help you as long as you apply the simple principles. I would even go as far as to say even if you are in a happy relationship where your husband is totally devoted and loves you and shows you in every way it’s still worth reading because you can make him happier and have an even better relationship. Follow this link if you want to know more about the penguin method